MY STORY
[ BECOMING AN ARTIST ]
EARLY BEGINNINGS : GROWING UP
Ever since I was a child, I was a dreamer. I remember adults asking me what I wanted to be when I grew up, and I never seemed to have an answer like other kids did. I knew I wanted to be me, I knew I wanted to be happy- but there didn’t seem to be a category in the world of professions that I witnessed people truly being themselves and happy. As I grew older and went through various stages of my life, the freedom and fun of those childhood dreams seemed to slowly fade away into the realm of the impossible. Nothing seemed to grab my attention in school, and I felt very disconnected though inspired by others who knew what they wanted to do in life and were sure about it. “How do they know they want to be doctors, lawyers, brokers? What was it about those things that they found themselves within the identity of?” Questions I continued to ask myself as I attempted to fit into a world I felt internally alien to. When I was a child, I loved cartoons. Sunday mornings spent watching Looney Tunes with my sister and brother were some of the most special moments of my life. Things seemed easier then, no big choices having to be made that would determine my life and its outcome, just the pure bliss of the moment and excitement of what games I was gonna play that day, and which friends I would be doing it with (S/O Kayla Leftwich, Christine Nott, Serena Barrera, Matt Ray, My Twin Sis Bourt and the Treasure Hills OG’s <3) Cartoons always made me laugh, and there seemed to always be an internal connection to each of the characters that I saw within myself as a child. I found myself in Bugs Bunny- defying authority and rules, a trickster. Seemingly always finding a way to humor himself in his own ways despite the endless pursuit of being hunted by Elmer Fudd. Daffy Duck who is fearless in unleashing his feelings and proclaiming his true emotions, expressing all of the things we as humans are too scared and ashamed of to say out loud. Goofy who is an adult-child, absent-minded in his own world, witty. I can’t remember when I stopped watching cartoons, but looking back it didn’t seem “age appropriate” to continue to watch them and there was seemingly always ”more important” matters of the future at hand.
[ THE PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS ]
SEEING BEYOND THE VEIL
As I got older, the descriptive adjectives I heard from others regarding those who watch cartoons were “lazy, unmotivated, immature, childish”. When I internally processed those labels, it felt very negative and shameful- and I knew that I didn’t want to be labeled or percieved within categories that people were constantly looking down upon. I stopped watching cartoons and followed the crowd in order to not be defined in negative terms from the people around me despite learning a lot and being inspired by the cartoons and shows I was watching. Anyways, back to the important shit. Work, money, the pursuit of happiness…. Well I went to college. There I was told to pick a degree- I felt the immense pressure of having to decide my fate at that pivotal moment. At that point in my life, being an artist or anything in the creative realm would have been “foolish, a gamble, a hobby, a silly dream”. That didn’t matter anyway since the creativity within me seemed to slowly diminish and become non-existent around the 6th grade as there was always school or sports to focus on. Being so, there was not even an ounce of thought in my world that I was a painter, artist and creator in my mind at the time. I chose something that I knew would be extremely difficult, but very highly regarded in society, notable: Pre Law. There was another part of me that loved writing. So I also decided to major in English. Though a year late and through mental battles and extreme tests of what I could endure, I graduated college in 2018. Hoping I had made the right decisions to set myself up for success and in turn a happy life, I sought out into the world, bright eyed and bushy tailed for a future filled with endless possibilities and hope. My professional resume by the time I was 28 was incredible by society’s terms. Having been an HR Manager for a nonprofit, opening two new facilities and staffing each, helping the world become a better place. Becoming the Talent Manager for one of the worlds most renowned real estate agents with an office in Beverly Hills, ME: a small town girl from Harlingen, Texas.
Despite this I felt unfulfilled, and didn’t feel like I thought I would feel having attained material and social status. I still didn’t feel “successful” in my own reality. I wasn’t truly happy, but I should’ve been because I was taught my whole life that a good career and hard work would make me happy and create a good life for me. I was battling with myself, wondering where I’d gone wrong in the decisions I made. I set myself up for the happiest life possible and worked hard for it. Yet here I was in Beverly Hills amongst the stars still feeling a little empty and incomplete inside. I decided I was going to find out what my passion and purpose was. I tried everything- making rugs, starting a clothing line, creating music, which I found to be really fun, but still not entirely fulfilling. Still I continued to try new things to discover what really made me feel successful and happy, though I still had to work full time to pay my bills and survive, so with the spare time I did have- I decided to continue exploring the repressed parts of myself, paving and dedicating time for play and adventure. Calling back to the child I once was that had hopes + dreams: a girl who saw beauty/joy in the world around her and loved to create. A human inspired by cartoons. Go watch the video below to see how painting became my creative outlet and passion cause I know you’re tired of reading. :-)
ERROR 1111: LIVING MY TRUTH
AUTOMATED RESPONSE :
SORRY! THIS CHAPTER OF MY LIFE SEEMS TO BE ENCOUNTERING AN INTERNAL ERROR. PLEASE REFRESH OR TRY AGAIN LATER! I MAY BE OUT PAINTING, PLAYING, ON AN ADVENTURE, DISCOVERING, LAUGHING, LIVING THROUGH MY INNER CHILD, BEING THE KID THAT SOCIETY ONCE SOUGHT TO CONTROL THE NARRATIVE OF AND CREATIVELY HINDER, ESCAPING THE CONSTRUCTS OF THE REALITY YOU CURRENTLY RESIDE AND OPERATE IN. IN THE PROCESS OF UNLEARNING THE PATTERNS THAT BOXED ME IN TO PERFORM A SOCIAL ROLE. OPEN YOUR EYES. WATCH CARTOONS. DO THE THINGS THAT BRING YOU JOY AND HAPPINESS. RE-DISCOVER YOURSELF. TELL YOUR STORY : HOW DO YOU…PAINT THE SOUL?
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